If you’re here, you’re probably wondering:

  • Why does intimacy feel so confusing sometimes?

  • Is it normal to want more or less than my partner?

  • How do I talk about what I really want in bed confidently?

  • Why didn’t anyone ever teach me this?

Whether you're navigating desire, feeling unsatisfied, deepening connection in a relationship, or just trying to understand your body better- I’m here to help.
I work with individuals, couples, and partners to build more connected and fulfilling intimate lives.

This is more than sex education for grown-ups. This is coaching that meets you where you are.
No pressure, no nudity, no performative goals- just care, clarity, and curiosity.

What About Sex Education?

Sometimes the issue isn’t psychological- it’s that you were never taught how your body works, what pleasure can look like, or how to talk about sex.
That’s where inclusive, evidence-based sex education comes in.

You might benefit from sex education if you’re:

  • Newly exploring your gender, identity, or orientation

  • Navigating sex after a long time off, after childbirth, or in menopause

  • Wanting support around sexual health, safer sex, or anatomy

  • Curious about kink, toys, or expanding your erotic imagination

  • Trans or nonbinary and want to feel more at home in your sex life

Sometimes education and coaching go hand-in-hand. You don’t need to figure that out alone, I'll help guide you.

Who I Work With

My work centers queer, trans, neurodivergent, and marginalized experiences, but I work with people across the spectrum of identity and background.

Clients often come to me because they’re looking for:

  • A safe place to talk about sex without judgment

  • Help understanding desire discrepancies in a relationship

  • Support for building confidence in the bedroom

  • Tools for reconnecting with a partner after trauma or disconnection

  • Guidance for expanding their erotic life on their terms

You don’t have to be “broken” or “failing” to get support. You just have to be curious about what else is possible. I’ve worked with many couples who have a thriving relationship outside of the bedroom but from parenthood, stress of life, or comfortability have lost the spark. I can help rekindle that. In the same vane I have also help couples who are just a couple of months into their relationship. Maybe this is one of their first queer relationships, maybe they’re navigating different desire types, or maybe they’re both coming from rough past relationships. I can help set the tone for the best intimate life as possible.

What Is Intimacy Coaching?

Intimacy coaching is collaborative support focused on improving your experience of connection. Whether with yourself, a partner, or your body. Sessions are structured but flexible. Together, we might:

  • Explore your relationship to touch, pleasure, and desire

  • Untangle shame from past experiences

  • Learn how to name and express what you want (or don’t want)

  • Address physical or emotional blocks around sex

  • Practice communication tools for intimacy and conflict

  • Work toward secure and affirming connection with a partner

This isn’t therapy. It’s not about diagnosing you or digging into every past trauma (though we can acknowledge them). It’s practical, present-moment work with a trauma-aware lens.

Intimacy Coaching & Sex Education for Individuals and Couples

Evidence-based, inclusive, and judgment-free support for your most personal questions.

What clients have to say…

  • “Working with Madeline completely changed the way I relate to sex and intimacy. I came in with so much shame and confusion and left feeling more connected to my body. Her approach is warm, nonjudgmental, and deeply affirming but clear. I finally feel like I have the tools to communicate what I want and that it’s okay to want it.”

    A.G. age 28

    Individual Client

  • “My partner and I were struggling with mismatched desire and didn’t know where to start. Madeline helped us talk through things we’d been avoiding for years without blame or awkwardness. We both feel more understood, more connected, and honestly more playful in the bedroom. This was one of the best decisions we’ve made for our relationship.”

    K.L. & S.T., ages: 33&35

    Couples Session

  • “As a queer, neurodivergent person, I’ve never felt so seen in a professional space. Madeline brings clarity to topics I thought were too complicated or weird to talk about. Her sex education is smart, trauma-aware, and surprisingly fun. I finally understand my desire patterns and how to work with not against my nervous system.”

    M.H. age: 27

    Individual Client + “Wanting On Purpose” student

  • “I thought I needed therapy, but what I really needed was this: someone who could meet me with curiosity, knowledge, and care around sex and intimacy. Madeline gave me practical tools, language I didn’t have, and space to talk about things I’ve never said out loud before. I wish I had found her sooner.”

    C.B. age: 31

    Individual Client

  • “This was the first time I’ve ever talked about sex without feeling embarrassed. I came in wanting to understand my body better after coming out as nonbinary, and Madeline gave me both education and emotional support. I’ve never felt more empowered or more in tune with my own pleasure. I learned sex can look different, it’s not just heteronormative.”

    J.R. age 42

    Individual Client

  • “We had been together for years and had a good relationship but sex started to feel routine and a little disconnected. Working with Madeline helped us completely rethink what foreplay even was. She gave us language, tools, and really thoughtful exercises that helped us slow down and actually enjoy the build-up again. It wasn’t just about ‘fixing’ anything it was about getting curious together.”

    R.N. & J.T. ages: 35&35

    Couples Coaching Clients

What to Expect in a Session

Sessions are held over Zoom. You’ll never be asked to undress, perform, or share more than you’re comfortable with. This is a fully clothed, consent-based space. It’s similar to “talk therapy” but the focus and practice is different.
You set the pace we move at the speed of trust.

We'll start with a free consultation to see if we’re a good fit. From there, you can book single sessions or opt for a short-term package.

Investment & Booking

Sessions are $248/hour.
I also offer 3-session packages and sliding scale spots to increase accessibility.

Discovery Call

Free

Curious about working together but not quite sure yet? A free discovery call is a no-pressure way to explore if 1:1 coaching or sex education support is the right fit for you.

We’ll take about 15 minutes to:

  • Talk about what’s bringing you here

  • Clarify your goals or questions

  • Go over how I work and what you can expect from sessions

  • Make sure it feels like a mutual match

This call isn’t a full coaching session, we won’t be diving into strategies or solutions just yet. But it is a safe, supportive space to get clear on what you need and how I can help (or refer you elsewhere if needed).

Your questions are welcome. Your nervousness is welcome. You don’t need to have it all figured out- just come as you are.

Intimacy Session

$248

Whether you're seeking clarity, connection, or tools for change, a 1:1 session is a personalized space to focus on what matters most to you.

Each session is 60 minutes and tailored to your needs.

This work is evidence-based, queer-affirming, and fully clothed. No nudity. No pressure. Just thoughtful, grounded support rooted in care, consent, and clarity.

If you’re not sure where to begin, that’s okay. You don’t need to have the “right” words. You just have to be willing to show up with curiosity.

Single sessions are best for people wanting to do a session every other week or once a month.

3-Session Coaching Package

$695

This package is ideal for individuals or couples ready to commit to meaningful change with steady support that holds you across the process.

Over the course of one month, we’ll meet for three 60-minute sessions to explore the core of your intimate life. Together, we’ll focus on:

  • Deepening your understanding of arousal, desire, and pleasure

  • Naming and unlearning patterns rooted in shame or disconnection

  • Building tools to support trust, communication, and connection (solo or with a partner)

Whether you’re looking to reconnect, expand your erotic life, or understand yourself more fully, this is a space for focused, compassionate, body-aware support.

Sessions must be used within 3 months of purchase, but are designed to be scheduled weekly or biweekly for one calendar month. Ongoing support after the inaugural month is encouraged and discussed after the initial month.